Domestic Violence – Civil vs. Criminal?
February 162010
I have been dragged into court and have lost most of my custody of my children due to false allegations of domestic violence.
I was forced to undergo a "domestic violence assessment (anyone who has ever had to do this knows it is a freakin’ joke) and, of course, failed it on grounds that "when she ordered me to leave OUR home and he did not do so, he created a hostile atmosphere which could be considered abuse."
Based on the biased opinion of an intern therapist, my children have been taken away from me and I am being forced to undergo various "therapies" for my "possible actions of domestic violence."
I ask you, how can this kind of treatment take place in any court? There are no pictures, medical reports, police reports, witnesses or anything else even remotely resembling logical proof and yet I am apparently being prosecuted and persecuted in court for something I haven’t even done. My children have been taken away from me based on nothing but hearsay.
Meanwhile, my friend just finished jury duty in a case where the guy was being charged with domestic violence. In THAT case there was insufficient "proof" so the charges were dropped. He has his kids 50/50.
Can anyone tell me why I’m being treated this way in what is supposed to be the best court system on earth? The grief I have suffered from being victimized by what is obviously a corrupt court with an agenda is monolithic.
I should have known. I think this is going to be the last time I put a question on Y! Answers. The responses I get only further solidify my belief that we as people are ruined. Unbelievable!
Unfortunately, my friend, there are people who cannot answer seriously and/or have NO clue about the California Kangaroo Court system…
Being that I know you and the situation – have SEEN the court documents, I feel that you should seek advice from people who KNOW what they are talking about and can answer with compassion…
….And God help them if they should be forced to walk in YOUR shoes someday….Then American may not feel like America after all.
February 16th, 2010 at 6:50 pm
Ask that DOLT Chris Brown. That 19 year old idiot is about to start wearing panties for his criminal act!
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February 16th, 2010 at 7:40 pm
1. yes, the system isn’t perfect but it is as good as it gets.
now, i’ve never had the ‘domestic violence assessment’ done to me, but i do know that it is not a joke, just like our judicial system is not a joke.
when she asked you to leave, you didn’t.
just because you don’t leave bruises does not clear you from abuse. abuse is about ‘power’. and you’re flexing your muscles.
whatever it is that you have to do, start taking it seriously or you’ll lose your children forever.
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February 16th, 2010 at 7:59 pm
Why dont you star by being civil and learn how to treat a lady… is rare when we made-up histories like this….
so sorry but I dont believe ur innocence…
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February 16th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
Unfortunately, my friend, there are people who cannot answer seriously and/or have NO clue about the California Kangaroo Court system…
Being that I know you and the situation – have SEEN the court documents, I feel that you should seek advice from people who KNOW what they are talking about and can answer with compassion…
….And God help them if they should be forced to walk in YOUR shoes someday….Then American may not feel like America after all.
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PS – This is why I do not come in here so much anymore….Too many wise guys and way too many idiots who probably could NOT find their way out of a paper bag.