I met this guy I really like but! I just found he has a history of domestic violence and did 3months for it.?

February 52010

What i want to know is he ex[plained the situtation to me and it didnt seem that he should have did time for hitting his at the time girl on the butt, and prior he went to jail for another girl for grabbing her so does anyone think that he’s gonna be abusive to me cause he can be lying I know that but maybe it was the type of women he was dealing with

If you want to give him a change, BE VERY CAREFUL, take precautions, I don’t think you would get "3 months!" for a mild bruise… If it was because the type of women, then he might have a problem with you… that is, if you are not of the same type he is used to. And if it is his problem he won’t be able to change his behavior any time soon.

Remember, BE CAREFUL. You CAN’T truly love someone you don’t respect.

6 Responses

  1. Paige Says:

    in most cases, unless he is getting help, of abuse it will continue
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  2. QuantumB Says:

    First I think he’s lying about the amount of time he spent in jail. Are you sure it wasn’t prison? I think he probably did more time than he’s saying. My question is why do you think so little of yourself that you would even consider this guy? Are you nuts? Next time he goes to prison it could be for life…for beating you to death!
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  3. princess Says:

    people will sugar coat any story to make it sound less than it was. no one has the right to touch another person REGARDLESS of what type of person they are. get away from this man now or you may be next!! he is not worth taking a chance on there are to many single men out there.
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  4. Karla T Says:

    If you want to give him a change, BE VERY CAREFUL, take precautions, I don’t think you would get "3 months!" for a mild bruise… If it was because the type of women, then he might have a problem with you… that is, if you are not of the same type he is used to. And if it is his problem he won’t be able to change his behavior any time soon.

    Remember, BE CAREFUL. You CAN’T truly love someone you don’t respect.
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  5. alma c Says:

    Do you think the other girls were blaming the previous girl too? I think you are only trying to make excuses for him because you really like him. But, if you already making excuses for him now, what is going to happend when he actually does something to you? Yes guys could change but at the same time they are a walking bomb that could explote at the minor detail. Dont fool yourself he does have a temper problem if he has done time! its bad! run! run! as fastest as you can and find a nicer guy! that will treat you nice and will think you are the best thing ever happend to him!!!
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    previously married to an abusive person for 9 years!

  6. Allen L Says:

    get out of this relationship-this will not change and you are heading for a world of hurt-NOBODY goes to jail for hitting a girl on the butt-unless it was a bat-the guys a liar and a loser
    DUMP DUMP DUMP DUMP
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