The lowdown on domestic violence against men part 1
December 132009
Companion article with sources:
http://www.true-equality.net/archive/2008/05/11/the-lowdown-on-domestic-violence-against-men.aspx
This video is essentially a slight remake of my “Domestic violence – Ignoring the victims” video.
It contains a great deal of new material but I did it for reasons I shall reveal in time..
I have moved back indoors as it was becoming increasingly difficult to find a quiet place to make the video in an uninterrupted way.
Like all my other videos today — this one is split into two parts too. I would like to stop this but youtube insists not, even though I have directors account, I cannot upload videos longer than 10 minutes long. What a load of bull, youtube is not the best at providing you with a way to contact them.
[corrections]
I said “Erin Pizney” it is “Erin Pizzey”.
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=yGc_GL6icQs
httpv://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=yGc_GL6icQs
Duration : 0:8:55
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December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
Best vid on the …
Best vid on the subject of men’s rights yet.
Good job
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
@ILoveDemonWolves
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@ILoveDemonWolves
Oh drop the crap!
“move to south africa” – Yea, maybe equality is not in africa, but we have it here. And it’s about time men demand
equal rights to the courts and social services!!! THAT is what this is all about…
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
woman need a slap …
woman need a slap on the mouth now and then to keep them in their place
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
well I say that if …
well I say that if women beat men,I say that men should beat the living out of women,especially violent women.
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
I feel bad that you …
I feel bad that you suffered abuse as a child, BUT you have become an abuser and that is a bad thing
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
I’ve had a similar …
I’ve had a similar childhood, and where I’ve never hit a woman I share your sentiment.
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
i used to get …
i used to get beaten when i was a child by women, when i was old and big enough i was able to give them a beating and have never had any abuse since, so sometimes male on female violence isnt a bad thing
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
Argus have you seen …
Argus have you seen the movie The Pursuit of Happynes? If you haven’t then go rent it or something it shows what life was like for a man being discriminated against and the emotional abuse that he suffered from his wife. It is based on a true story!
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
danielcooper1000
danielcooper1000
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
So you allow the …
So you allow the men to make extremely violent comments towards women but when a woman turns around and does it, probably to make a point at how FOOLISH it is to do such a thing, you suspend her. Ok, I see how this works. You banter on about equality and these posts you moderate are equal eh? Unfuckingreal.
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
Domestic Violence, …
Domestic Violence, domestic violence is when ur girlfriend totals both your cars, steals ur money, and her other boyfriend to visits when ur away. then when you say she has to leave, she callls the cops and has you arressted, then steals yourstuff when your in jail. No marks on her, as long as I’m alive boyfriends can beat the out of their girlfriends and I’ll give them a medal!
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
chill out, man. you …
chill out, man. you seem pretty butthurt that i defended women. don’t complain about how it is in america. if u don’t like equality, there are plenty of places without it. go to southern africa or something.
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
Lower than some …
Lower than some dumb who has the username ILoveDemonWolves? I don’t think so… Go role play or weave a basket with your mom you geeky fucktard.
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
why don’t u go live …
why don’t u go live in india then? i myself hate feminazis, but for u to feel this way towards women makes u rather low.
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
Go to marc rudov’s …
Go to marc rudov’s website about domestic violence and u will find that 70% of perpetrators are actually women. Where as men are most likely to refrain from hitting a woman – even in self defense a woman whos violent will hold a no holds barred attitude because she can and wants to. I’m not against equality of opportunity as long as women can follow it up by going and settling for men with lower status than them when they are in higher earning careers.
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
Even better when a …
Even better when a woman gets falcon punched and they start crying.
works both ways.
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
Men are more likely …
Men are more likely to be the victim of verbal coercion than physical coercion.
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
Women will NEVER …
Women will NEVER have REAL/TRUE EQUALITY until they have REAL/TRUE EQUAL ACCOUNTABILITY-REAL/TRUE EQUAL RESPONSIBILITY and Liability. Remember,women are 100% responsible for every abortion that takes place. It is their Body,it is their Choice. They are the only ones who are accountable for those actions. They should take 100% of the credit for every one of them. It is their burden. Thats what makes them “unequal”..they are the only ones who can birth and/or kill a child,AT THEIR DISCRETION….
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
I imagine some of …
I imagine some of you might think it below the belt to say that but flicking through the pages of mags like FHM makes me wonder if they are even aware of the MRM at all. I would think that a magazine claiming to be the most read in the world might have realised the influence they could have if they devoted a few pages each issue to a subject such as fathers rights or prostate cancer in stead of teaching young men how to starve themselves into 28/34 Armani jeans.
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
I am against …
I am against negative treatment of men in the media too. What ArgusEyes finds offensive in media images of the brute of a man hitting a woman I find equally offensive, & many more cliche’s like it exist. They are neither accurate nor healthy psychology. One instance I’ll pull from here is in a recent issue of FHM where to lose weight, the writers were actually encouraging anorexia and bulimia – hardly the epitomy of responsible authorship is it? Where is the “real” man’s voice in FHM?
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
The media …
The media consistently do throw a lot of negative attention towards women. Portraying women as objects just for the pleasure of men is just one of the many ways in which the media act to moniter and shape attitudes to the feminine. And feminist groups always are up in arms about it. But I find this fairly superficial in comparisson with the current trend teenagers have for having their labia removed (on T.V) and the way in which the media “normalises” such procedures.
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
Depends what part …
Depends what part of India you’re in. India is a lot more liberal than you’d think – particularly in terms of gender, cross dressing, nudity and sex.
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
It’s sorta hard to …
It’s sorta hard to make this problem known. Most of the time it’s considered shameful if you tell anyone. The problem is just how socity sees men, but you know guys are brought up to be more “tough” than girls are, and usually will act violent to protect their masculinity. For example, I saw a lot of rather violent and disturbing comments here about hurting the woman. no offense but I wouldn’t want to be around a lot of you guys… though most guys are awesome, especially my dad! =D
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
Oh? So it’s ok for …
Oh? So it’s ok for you to not only hit her, but to cut her with a knife? That’s pathetic…
December 13th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
Why should …
Why should comparative victimology matter?
It matters because feminists are lobbying for sexist regulations, policies and laws that pertain to domestic conflicts. If people were under the impression that men and women were equally victimized/culpable in IPV, then it would be difficult to institutionalize sexist discrimination and prejudice. For feminists, it is very important that when a man and woman percieve each other as hostile enemy, that the law should take the womans side by default.