What if it were mandatory by law that here had to be functioning programs to address internal problems?

March 42010

…in the USA before money could be appropriated for foreign aid or to do anything but defend against attack?
These programs would have to demonstrate effectiveness and efficiency in combatting adult illiteracy, illegal immigration, drug addiction, sending jobs overseas, healthcare, high school dropouts,
domestic violence, violent crime, pollution, energy production, and other pressing problems, and be funded at effective levels, not passed and way underfunded.
Or present an alternative solution.

I wouldn’t have a computer anymore

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February 202010

A Justification for Peace – Maxime
After the attacks of Sep.11th it appears that out nation has become a hotbed for domestic and international violence. The focus on National security (or public paranoia) and the "War on Terrorism" are pulling the United States further and further out of touch with the rest of the world. Not only is the "War on Terrorism" an extremely vague operation but also it is one that typifies the American persona internationally. The pure violent aggression shown by the United States in response to Sep.11 is the same aggression that creates our unpopular and even hated image through out the world. In these uncertain times it is necessary to change the way that the USA deals in terms of diplomacy with all nations and peoples, for out government’s aggression will only increase the hatred that is felt for it abroad.

So what position or action is necessary in these times? We must ask ourselves if it is wiser to fight things like terrorism with peace or to fight it with violence.

History shows that violence results in only more violence, and in turn creates more hatred, placing us in, if not the same situation, but an increasingly more hostile one than we had before. If we proceed with this war and attack more nations, cities, families, and children we will create growing numbers of generations, internationally, that will be raised claiming the USA as the enemy. More generations that will view America as the main source of evil in the world due to our violent pressure to succumb to our will. When a people are attacked, and suffer much loss and tragedy from them, they will feel intense hostility toward the aggressor and in turn will seek and want revenge for their loss. The best example of this was our own country after Sep.11th. The people wanted revenge; they wanted to make the aggressor suffer how they had suffered. Again, this is the same sentiment that Usama bin Laden stated after the attacks in his press release video, saying that revenge was the justification to the attacks. It would seem that war is not the solution to getting rid of terrorism, if anything it appears that it will create even more.

Now, what would be the outcome if we turn to a peaceful plan of action? And how can we do that? First and foremost the United States must start dealing with the world at a level where we do not appear to be dictating it. Our country needs to learn how to act in international politics with out always putting its military strength behind its words. In short the USA needs to start acting like a peaceable nation rather than just claiming that it is a peaceable nation. Secondly, our government must remember that we are a country inhabited with people from every culture and nation in the world, and that every violent action taken by it overseas has direct domestic ramifications. Be it hate crimes or the destruction of rights to specific peoples in our nation (look at the situation in Dearborn, MI, right now), it is seen that war tears our own communities apart and creates even less harmony between all ethnic groups in the USA.

The only solution to end violence is to act as a non-violent entity, and through that perspective deal with the rest of the world. If the USA does not listen to its own citizens on this issue maybe they will take the advice from their contemporaries around the world. In one of the most promising speeches given by a politician in the 21st century so far, German Chancellor Gerhard Schroeder, coming from a nation that knows the harsh realities of war, made a call for peace. In a speech that he made after his second election a month ago, he said that the ".terrorist attacks in the United States on Sep.11th, as well as more recent attacks in Djerba, Bali, and Moscow, have shown the world that global security is less and less achievable through military means. Rather, preventive conflict resolution through social and ecological security, economic cooperation and the upholding of human rights of minorities is critical." When asked whether his country would take part in a war with Iraq, he said, bluntly; that "Germany would not take part in a military strike."

If our government were to engage the rest of the world with a priority of global equality, financial equality and peace, the way that the country would be viewed would change ten fold to the positive. The goal to success in anything is to make sure that all members involved are comfortable and secure with all other members, creating a peaceful and rational platform to debate issues with out conflict. In short, the key is respect, with out it we will never get along and we will never have peace. Lets hope that our nation starts coming to terms with the reality of the situation and through a giant act of change decides to make peace its primary goal.

Nice rant, but it would never work. You can not reason with people who want you dead so much so they will blow themselves up in order to kill you. They must be eliminated or incarcerated for life…scratch that, eliminated.

Possible solution to gang violence?

February 182010

Like a lot of people, I am sick and tired of hearing news about gangs and their moronic behavior. Injuring scores of innocent people every year and killing dozens of each other or innocent bystanders. Why should ANY member of ANY gang in the USA be treated any different from a terrorist? They commit domestic terrorism every day. In our malls, school and city streets. They harass, intimidate, abuse, assault and murder each other and others that live in their communities.
I say make them pay hard for their crimes and here are suggestions:
First offense: minimum 1 yr for petty crimes that do not involve injury. Added to national watched list.
First offense resulting in an injury or death. 10 yr minimum sentence and added to national watched list and possibly the no fly list.
Second offense that does not result in injury. minimum 5 yr sentence and added to no fly list.
Second offense that results in injury or death. Life sentence, no possibility of parole.
Third offense that does not result in injury or death. 20 yr minimum sentence and placed under house arrest for an additional 5 yr minimum.
4th offense that does not involve and injury or death. Lifetime sentence with parole after 30 yrs have been served.
Gang members are, in my opinion Domestic Terrorists and should be treated as such.

It might help if we stopped importing new gangs and members. It’s enough to have to deal with our own.

Ending the Circle of Violence

February 162010

Experts discuss solutions to domestic abuse

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What do you think are good topics that should be covered in a research paper on Intimate Partner Violence?

February 162010

I’m completely my senior thesis on Domestic Violence / Intimate Partner Violence and I needed feedback on what you would consider good arguements or points to disclose in an research paper. Also what would solutions to be discussed in a research paper on domestic violence. I really need your help and would appreciate it. Thanks.

I think that Sexual Abuse/Harassment and the definition of rape in a relationship would be good topics to discuss. Perhaps you could define what is violence and abuse, and argue the facts against myths (for example, women sexually harass men just as much as men harass women). Also you could give examples about court rights and what is the law. You can make it interesting by viewing/taking polls or surveys about the knowledge of domestic violence from the general population and integrate it within your paper.

Korean American Family Support Center 1

February 132010

Watch the Domestic Violence Show online at http://dv.Pucho.com site.

The Domestic Violence Show is about a Bronx Social Worker who Turns her Pain Into Intense Drama. She lived with an abusive husband for decades has turned her pain into an enlightening stage production.

Korean American Family Support Center (KAFSC) offers
free domestic violence services in Korean language in Flushing, Queens, NY.

24 hour bilingual hotline: (718) 460-3800

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My friend called me for advice, I am all out of solutions, what should I tell her?

February 122010

My friend just got out of an abuseive marriage (verbal, mental and physically abusive). The ex refused to leave and the police would not enforce it b/c she let him come back. I work in the ER so I sent her to the womens shelter that we refer domestic violence victims to. Needless to say a court order and the sherriff gladly came to the house and removed the jerk even though he still refused to leave. A couple of weeks later my friend met a guy on the internet, long sotry short..he relocated him self to her house she shares w/ her children and is worse than the ex husband ever was and refuses to leave. The friend is scarred of him and he is unwilling to leave. My frineds say walk away, if he kills her maybe she will learn a lesson. The friend wants this guy to leave and cannot call the police again with this mess. My friend called asking of ways to get him gone and her change her number, I am shocked it happened again and don’t know what I should say and if it can be said kindly, help!

Gosh what her children must be going through needless to say her. But of course now she is choosing her own mess. However, does she own or rent? If she rents, I would tell her to leave. Go to a shelter and leave the bum there. Call the landlord and have him remove him if he is not on the lease. Or call the police again, I really don’t understand why she coulden’t other than the fact of embarrasment which I can understand somewhat but if you are afraid and your children are there do what you have to. If he is hitting her or something go to court and get a restraining order. If she does not have alot of money most courts will issue at a reduced or free charge. Hopefully she also can get some counseling. She needs to spend some time alone (manless) and find herself. Find that she is able to survive without a man and she is strong enough physically, emotionally, mentally. She otherwise probably will continue to make this mistake over and over. Her children will suffer the most. Good luck to you and her. PS if she neglects to take your advise. I would move on like your other friends suggest. You can lead a horse to water but you cant make them drink.

Arab American Family Support Center PSA

February 112010

Refer to http://dv.Pucho.com to watch Domestic Violence Show online.

The Domestic Violence Show is about a Bronx Social Worker who Turns her Pain Into Intense Drama. She lived with an abusive husband for decades has turned her pain into an enlightening stage production.

Arab American Family Support Center helps victims of Domestic Violence help themselves.

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Rainbow Center Domestic Violence PSA

February 82010

Refer to http://dv.Pucho.com to watch Domestic Violence Show online.

Free Domestic Violence Services in Flushing Queens New York NY.

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What is the Stop The Violence Movement by KRS-ONE and other rappers?

February 52010

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Q6OQlX_sFg

The rappers featured along with KRS-ONE include The Game, Lil Wayne, Ludacris, Busta Rhymes, Fat Joe, Cassidy, David Banner, Chamillionaire, Nelly and others.

The Stop the Violence Movement We are in a state of emergency – school shootings, nooses being hung from trees, domestic violence, gang violence, police misconduct, brutality and war. In the midst of mass turmoil we cannot afford to stand still. We must use our influence to raise awareness, heal and move toward truth and solutions. We are going to make a change. We are going to build a brighter future. Be part of it. Apathy is no longer an option. Let’s stop the violence.

Peace,

KRS-ONE

You can find more information in here
http://www.nobodysmiling.com/hiphop/musicvideo/76655.php
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stop_the_Violence_Movement
http://lavabeat.net
http://www.last.fm
http://mixmusique.com