Husband finds better solution to false 498a-kills four of wife’s family

June 202010

If indian government will not wake up this will be a solution for innocent people to protect themselves from false 498A

Join the Social Activism to save the crumbling indian family system and fight against gender biased indian draconian laws
Visit to join
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/saveindianfamily/
http://www.saveindianfamily.org
http://498a.org
http://www.498a.org.in/
http://498a.co.in/
http://498amisuse.wordpress.com/2010/02/17/498amisuse-judgements/

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Mental Health Solutions Episode 109

June 162010

This show is about preventing suicide. It is not the answer to any given situation. Domestic violence is also not the answer to any type of situation that you may be up against. For information regarding these shows, contact me at 360-539-7501.

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MHS 107 Web.mov

June 122010

Mental Health Solutions Episode #107 – I was a victim of domestic violence and also domestic assault. I went to Safe Place and they helped me through the situation. You can get help to if you so desire. Either through your local domestic violence services or people who you can trust. Please reach me if you need someone to speak to: 360-539-7501

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Tito Ortiz arrested for domestic violence

June 82010

news footage of tito being arrested, jenna jameson talks to reporter

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Mental Health Solutions Episode 108

May 312010

This is a show about domestic violence and physical assault. If you live in the South Puget Sound area and you need help dealing with domestic violence, call Safe Place at 360-754-6300 or Turning Point Domestic Violence Services at 360-426-1216, or the 24-hour Crisis Line at 432-1212. Thank you for watching this presentation of Mental Health Solutions.

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Being the vicitm of domestic violence?

May 292010

I’ve been hit, punched in the face, kicked, threatened etc by my real, older brother for years. This still happens at least once a week. I’m too scared to call the police because they might not do anything about it and thus i might get embarrassed in front of everyone else e.g. my neighbors will probably start looking strangely at me and think why the hell has she called the police etc.

I hate my life because I’m continuously getting bullied by my older brother and I keep telling my parents who end up shouting at me and my brother and they keep saying that they’re going to call the police but they never do. So telling my own parents is not a solution at all.

I’m confused and I really wish i could die instead of living this type of life!!! I mean this seriously. I often thought about running away from home but I’ve realized that there’s no where to go to really. My grandparents have all died and there’s no relative or family friends i can live with. I’m trapped in a home that’s like a living Hell.

Most online websites suggest that people like me should call childline or the police but what can they possibly do? Would they really arrest my older brother for hitting, punching, smacking me extra? They might take it too lightly but I don’t know.

Also, I want you to focus on this bit. Although I hardly ever bleed or get scars after getting physically abused, it’s still very violent to abuse one’s sibling like this at least once a week for many years. I couldn’t imagine a week without getting physically abused to be honest.

What would you do if u were in my situation?
Would you call the police and say something like my brother keeps on hitting me and he’s done this for years!
Don’t you think this wouls seem a bit lame and the police wouldn’t get bothered?

Call child line first. See what they say. If you call the police it will be a serious matter and they will have to act, but there could be serious consequences for your family.

Domestic Violence and Child Custody

May 272010

One of the most dangerous myths about family violence is the presumption that family court will protect domestic abuse suvivors. Learn how you can protect yourself and your children.

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Ok I have a problem…and I need the best possible solution about cyber bullying a child.?

May 232010

I live in Croatia. The country is really f. up regarding the laws, and order. Someone had put the photos of my nephew 10 years old on the FB, and then some jerk, I assume also 10 years old, but am not sure, because he put 2pak’s pictures intead of his, and false name commented on his pictures with words like: Loser, Homosexual, Shut up, etc.
I wrote to that, I think is a kid, but am not sure, to stop with that. He wrote back saying: sorry, and when went on the pictures and kept on bullying my nephew.
I’ve been thinking to write a letter now to the women who did put these pictures on, to delete those comments.
Am I going to stop this bullying by doing this, or is it going to continue in school, and on the street with that problematic kid?
Should I write to that women and ask her to wake up her stupid brain, because she obviously doesn’t care as long her kid is not abused, maybe not in those words, but trying to enlight her, because people in Croatia, not all, but that kind are really primitive, and aggressive, and most of them have guns, and there is lots of domestic violence at home, which to them is normal. I didn’t live in Croatia for the last 20 years, and to me it is all a horror movie.
Thank You.
I agree that 10y olds are not allowed FB account, but he didn’t put the pictures on, but some other boys’ mother of her son’s birthday, on which was also my nephew. Under those pictures were abusive comments, by some boy, who thinks is 2pak and ganagster, so he talks against anyone who is not into guns or violence, and anyone who has good grades at school. I did talk to my nephew’s fater, he said he sorted it out. I’ve also wrote to that boy’s mother who did put the pictures to take off the comments, as a mother, she should be against it. She took it off immediatelly, which was good to know, that she is a human being after all. I did report that other boy to FB, because his profile was full of guns and homophobic abuses. My nephew is not gay, and yet he went on calling him homosexual, just because he was jealous of him, so didn’t know how to make himself more important. Anyway, it stopped. I had to include adults in all of this, because some kids are bullies, sad. Thank You !!!

It doesn’t matter Alison about the probable age. Everyone is incognito on the internet, so you don’t know the real age of the person who is cyber bulling your nephew. He should change his account and only give it to people he trusts.

This is a big issue just now. 2 teenage girls committed suicide over bullying at school and cyber bulling….If he is not being bullied at school, just ask his dad to make him change his account and that should be the end of the harrassment….

Phoebe Prince was a big issue about her being bullied..,.on the internet and at school but she knew the people who were behind it. In her case she should have told the teacher or the head of the school and her parents,
http://www.truecrimereport.com/2010/01/phoebe_prince_15_commits_suici.php

Goddess Force January 2009

May 222010

Goddess Force performing at 2009 SF/BA MECDA Gala Show at Cubberley Auditorium in Palo Alto. Fundraiser for Next Door Solution to Domestic Violence.

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Cyber bullying a child?

May 202010

Ok, it is in relationships, but all parents are sleeping, and I need an answer, so please, if awake.

Ok I have a problem…and I need the best possible solution about cyber bullying a child.?
I live in Croatia. The country is really f. up regarding the laws, and order. Someone had put the photos of my nephew 10 years old on the FB, and then some jerk, I assume also 10 years old, but am not sure, because he put 2pak’s pictures intead of his, and false name commented on his pictures with words like: Loser, Homosexual, Shut up, etc.
I wrote to that, I think is a kid, but am not sure, to stop with that. He wrote back saying: sorry, and when went on the pictures and kept on bullying my nephew.
I’ve been thinking to write a letter now to the women who did put these pictures on, to delete those comments.
Am I going to stop this bullying by doing this, or is it going to continue in school, and on the street with that problematic kid?
Should I write to that women and ask her to wake up her stupid brain, because she obviously doesn’t care as long her kid is not abused, maybe not in those words, but trying to enlight her, because people in Croatia, not all, but that kind are really primitive, and aggressive, and most of them have guns, and there is lots of domestic violence at home, which to them is normal. I didn’t live in Croatia for the last 20 years, and to me it is all a horror movie.
Thank You.

to the first replier: they have guns because it is a post war country that is still living in fear of their neighbors at times.

which would also explain some of the f. up kids over there because they didnt learn any better than survival of the fittest.
ok, i would be very careful with what you are doing to avoid that your nephew is getting picked on for being a mommies (aunties) boy.
first step is to report the comments to FB that should remove them. write a message to the person who uploaded the pictures and tell her that you reported the comments to protect your nephew. at the same time write the comment poster a message saying that you reported the comments and explain to him that this is not an acceptable behavior.
tomorrow, ask your nephew if he knows the boy who wrote the comments and find out if there is a deeper problem existing. then go to his school and ask the teachers how they deal with cyber mobbing. croatia is not behind the moon, they do have smart people there so be the change you want to see in the world and create awareness. make cyber mobbing a subject to be discussed in school so that the kids understand that this is no fun. get the media involved if need be but dont just sit there and be scared. take positive action and lead by example.
good luck!