Men Against Rape » domestic violence history http://www.menagainstrape.org Thu, 15 Jul 2010 00:16:01 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 en hourly 1 Violence: An American Tradition (Part 2 of 6) http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/violence-an-american-tradition-part-2-of-6 http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/violence-an-american-tradition-part-2-of-6#comments Tue, 13 Jul 2010 16:57:08 +0000 admin http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/violence-an-american-tradition-part-2-of-6 Exploration of the tradition of violence in America, drawing on the history of invading settlers and native peoples, frontier outlaws and modern-day murderers, racist violence, the urban underclass, and domestic abuse. Narrated by Julian Bond, with commentary by Cornell West. Caution: Contains scenes that may be disturbing to young or sensitive viewers.

Produced by Kunhardt Productions for HBO.

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]]> http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/violence-an-american-tradition-part-2-of-6/feed 10 UK Domestic Violence Statistics – Fathers’ Rights http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/uk-domestic-violence-statistics-fathers-rights http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/uk-domestic-violence-statistics-fathers-rights#comments Thu, 08 Jul 2010 22:46:16 +0000 admin http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/uk-domestic-violence-statistics-fathers-rights BBC radio program examining UK domestic violence statistics.

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SUBJECT PLAYLIST

Representing Yourself in UK Family Courts

http://lipfamilycourts.blogspot.com/

Shared Parenting Research

http://sharedparentingresearch.blogspot.com/

CAFCASS

http://cafcasscourts.blogspot.com/

Parental Alienation Syndrome PAS

http://intractablehostility.blogspot.com/

The Welfare of the Child in UK Family Proceedings

http://welfareofchildren.blogspot.com/

COMMENTS

“Very many thanks for sending me a copy of your interesting and informative guide on ‘even Toddlers Need Fathers’. I much appreciate your drawing my attention to it”.
PROFESSOR SIR MICHAEL RUTTER, 13th March 2002.

“I am very grateful to all those, like yourself who have written and particularly where you have been able to demonstrate your own thinking from the experiences you have had. Congratulations on your battle”.
Former UK Home Secretary and father DAVID BLUNKETT, 22 March 2005.

“The PRIME MINISTER has asked me to thank you for your recent letter and enclosure. The Prime Minister does not issue photographs of his children and therefore has to decline your request. He has
however asked me to pass on his best wishes”.
1O DOWNING STREET, 8 March 2001.

“It was thoughtful of you to enclose a copy of your book ‘even Toddlers Need Fathers’ and HER MAJESTY has noted your concerns”.
BUCKINGHAM PALACE, 26 July 2006.

LINKS

WEBSITE
‘even Toddlers Need Fathers’ – not for profit
http://www.eventoddlersneedfathers.com

YouTUBE VIDEO CHANNEL
http://www.youtube.com/profile?user=evenToddlers

TWITTER
http://twitter.com/evenToddlers

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]]> http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/uk-domestic-violence-statistics-fathers-rights/feed 7 THE LEGAL PROCESS OF INTIMATE PARTNER VIOLENCE IN KENTUCKY http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/the-legal-process-of-intimate-partner-violence-in-kentucky http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/the-legal-process-of-intimate-partner-violence-in-kentucky#comments Sun, 04 Jul 2010 20:39:22 +0000 admin http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/the-legal-process-of-intimate-partner-violence-in-kentucky GENDER VIOLENCE 333 FINAL PROJECT:
HISTORY OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE & RAPE IN KENTUCKY

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]]> http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/the-legal-process-of-intimate-partner-violence-in-kentucky/feed 1 emotional abuse and possible domestic violence – am I doing everything I can? http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/emotional-abuse-and-possible-domestic-violence-am-i-doing-everything-i-can http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/emotional-abuse-and-possible-domestic-violence-am-i-doing-everything-i-can#comments Sat, 03 Jul 2010 12:25:13 +0000 admin http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/emotional-abuse-and-possible-domestic-violence-am-i-doing-everything-i-can I am living with my parents and I’m in my late twenties (yes I realise I should have moved out a long time ago- realistically the earliest I can afford to move out is in two months). Perhaps I have stayed here this long because I am worried about my mum’s safety if I leave but have recently decided it’s her choice that she stays with my dad but that’s slightly off topic.

I’ll try and be brief. My dad has depression. He is probably bi-polar but my mum is vague about this. He has a history of violence with me and my sister but the last time he was violent was in 1993 when he pushed my sister down the stairs and the police got involved.

Ever since he has not been violent but a month ago he threatened to assault me because I had "answered him back". I am never rude to him or don’t swear at him but he seems to think I don’t have the right to speak my mind. In summary he is controlling and he is a bully.
He does n’t ask me to do things he tells me to do things. I feel threatened if I don’t comply as he speaks in a threatening tone and looks threatening. My mum is usually a buffer when I’m in the house but she is currently away in a different continent visiting relatives until Monday. In any case she does n’t accept the seriousness of the situation. I have spoken to the police and they recorded the incident that happened a month ago. They said that if I get threatened or attacked again in future I just need to call 999. I feel that my case is n’t being taken seriously. I know they have made a record of this but they say they can not do anything else right now as his last episode of violence was in 1993. Is there anyone else I can talk to?

Hi Mel, You are to be applauded for staying so long for the sake of your mother, many mothers also put up with similar emotional and physical abuse for the sake of their children. I was in a similar situation with my first husband, but was forced to take action because he refused to go to work after the birth of our third child and became even more abusive towards me after the 4th. The trouble with bullies is that the more you try to pacify them the worse they become. After I left, taking the children with me, I found the senior police totally unsympathetic. If you ring 999 there is no guarantee that you will get immediate assistance. I would suggest you talk to a church minister and, if you can manage it, take up lodgings with a friend, YMCA, Salvation Army or Youth Hostel, you deserve a safe and comfortable home. Good luck. God bless. Gladgran

]]> http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/emotional-abuse-and-possible-domestic-violence-am-i-doing-everything-i-can/feed 3 Domestic abuse New Zealand http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/domestic-abuse-new-zealand http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/domestic-abuse-new-zealand#comments Wed, 30 Jun 2010 17:40:19 +0000 admin http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/domestic-abuse-new-zealand Domestic abuse is on the increase in New Zealand and so is the level of violence involved.
That is worrying enough for those who help the victims, but most alarming, they say, is a rise in the use of strangulation.
It is a violent act where just seconds can mean the difference between life and a horrific death.
One woman or child is killed every 12-and-a-half days in New Zealand as the result of domestic violence.
Jill Proudfoot from victim’s refuge Shine (Safer Homes in NZ Everyday) says strangulation is basically power display.
“It’s saying I could kill you if I want to. Whenever you attack a person’s throat you’re saying I could kill you,” says Proudfoot.
Two recent high profile murder cases in New Zealand involved strangulation.
Nai Yin Xue literally squeezed the life out of his wife and just days before Clayton Weatherston killed and mutilated Sophie Elliot, her mother, Lesley Elliott, says he had held his arm around her throat.
Annette Gillespie from Women’s Refuge says sometimes women do not understand the significance of strangulation and that it is in fact an attempt to kill.
Proudfoot says the fact that Weatherston put his arm across Elliott’s throat was a real warning sign.
The strangulation statistics make for disturbing reading.
There are no visible injuries 90% of the time, so it is hard for a victim to prove what has happened.
In 90% of cases there has been a history of domestic violence and in 99% of the cases, those who resort to using strangulation, are men.
Despite the dangers, many stay with their abuser, even though it might lead to more terrifying consequences.
“I had one woman say to me at least while I’m living with him I know where he is,” says Proudfoot.
ONE News spoke to a woman who finally found the courage to leave her abusive partner.
She says he threw her into a doorway, pushed her on to the ground and when she had the chance to run, he chased her through the house.
She says it filled her days with terror. Worst of all she says, all this happened right in front of their children.
“He ended up pushing me on top of my then four-year-old daughter,” says the victim.
After two decades of intense psychological abuse, her husband had started getting physical.
“I knew I had to get out for me and then I would fight for my children even if I had to walk out the door without them,” says the woman.
She says she used to be one of those women who did not have the courage to leave.
“Even if a woman thinks she’s in an abusive situation, even if she’s doubting herself, (she needs) to talk to somebody. I left it way too late,” she says.
She hopes her story will help others escape the violence, too.

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]]> http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/domestic-abuse-new-zealand/feed 1 Violence: An American Tradition (Part 1 of 6) http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/violence-an-american-tradition-part-1-of-6 http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/violence-an-american-tradition-part-1-of-6#comments Sat, 26 Jun 2010 02:01:11 +0000 admin http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/violence-an-american-tradition-part-1-of-6 Exploration of the tradition of violence in America, drawing on the history of invading settlers and native peoples, frontier outlaws and modern-day murderers, racist violence, the urban underclass, and domestic abuse. Narrated by Julian Bond, with commentary by Cornell West. Caution: Contains scenes that may be disturbing to young or sensitive viewers.

More info at http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0324451/

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]]> http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/acid-victim-metro-one/feed 0 xarian roy 2 www.xarianroygill.hyves.nl http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/xarian-roy-2-www-xarianroygill-hyves-nl http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/xarian-roy-2-www-xarianroygill-hyves-nl#comments Wed, 16 Jun 2010 18:31:24 +0000 admin http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/xarian-roy-2-www-xarianroygill-hyves-nl Dedicated to my litle sister who’s fighting for her son wel being.
Why are doors being opend with hope and then slammed back hard leaving us empty and hart broken .System of corruption and domestic violence why does my little cousin have to be a victem of justice and his wel being is in danger by his father.
sorry for the mix up on the e-mail adress above is the right site for xarian .
How many victems has to fall to the justice system of corruption and domestic violence of his father does history has to repeat its self over and over until its to late for this little boy xarian whos endangered by his live .Xarian misses his mommy very much and she misses her son xarian more than anything in the world.Xarian father isnt changing its just repeating him zelf with his domestic violence ,where xarian has been a victem of .so young of life and so much to give what about the well being of my sisters son xarian no one cares and no one helps why!!PLEASE PASS IT ON !! how many childeren has to become a victem of there domestic violence father and a corruption of justice!whatt about the well being of these childeren before its to late !!!www.xarianroygill.hyves.nl

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]]> http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/xarian-roy-2-www-xarianroygill-hyves-nl/feed 3 Dad, I’m Home.(Ba, wo hui lai le) 爸，我回来了..Jay Chou （周杰伦） http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/dad-im-home-ba-wo-hui-lai-le-%e7%88%b8%ef%bc%8c%e6%88%91%e5%9b%9e%e6%9d%a5%e4%ba%86-jay-chou-%ef%bc%88%e5%91%a8%e6%9d%b0%e4%bc%a6%ef%bc%89 http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/dad-im-home-ba-wo-hui-lai-le-%e7%88%b8%ef%bc%8c%e6%88%91%e5%9b%9e%e6%9d%a5%e4%ba%86-jay-chou-%ef%bc%88%e5%91%a8%e6%9d%b0%e4%bc%a6%ef%bc%89#comments Sat, 12 Jun 2010 12:48:32 +0000 admin http://www.menagainstrape.org/domestic-violence-history/dad-im-home-ba-wo-hui-lai-le-%e7%88%b8%ef%bc%8c%e6%88%91%e5%9b%9e%e6%9d%a5%e4%ba%86-jay-chou-%ef%bc%88%e5%91%a8%e6%9d%b0%e4%bc%a6%ef%bc%89 This song is a vivid evidence of the geniousness and originality of Jay’s musical talent. I don’t have its translation but the point is that
he broach taboo things in society about broken-home family and history of abusiveness in this song. I think the rap was kewL~.. (especially the hokkian ones)

Album: Fantasy 2001 (（范特西）)
Song: Dad, I’m Home.. （爸，我回来了..）
Composer: Jay Chou （周杰伦）
Lyricist: Jay Chou
Singer: Jay Chou （周杰伦）

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Pierce County Sheriff Paul Pastor meets with a few from the news media to discuss and take questions regarding the May 14th double murder suicide committed by Pierce County Sheriff’s Deputy Allen Myron. Myron killed his in-laws Monty and Sue Multanen, then himself after a standoff at his Gig Harbor home.

“…There’s no domestic violence calls, there’s no history of domestic violence in this family…”

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