With the discrimination against men in domestic violence…?

March 42010

I know it 99% automatically defaults to arresting the man. Short of him being disabled, dead, or something along those lines.
But….
How do police know who to arrest when there is a domestic disturbance involving lesbians?
Homojo: That’s a good thing to see. Fairness is the goal, after all.

Mystery: Boy oh boy, sexism at it’s finest. What lifetime/oxygen TV have you been watching? Women abuse just as much, if not more. Mental abuse is no less harmful than physical. Not to say that women only mentally abuse, though. And regardless – sexual disrimination is still sexual distrimination. It’s prejudice and it’s wrong. End of story.

Probably see which one looks more manly. Facial hair, muscular shoulders, ect….

Failing that, check for the damage. Although, that’s not very reliable. Simply because one knows how to defend oneself does not mean that they should be arrested for doing so.

Tough call on the cops’ part, I must say.

How can men help prevent domestic violence?

March 22010

I’m doing a report on a man’s role in preventing domestic violence could be.

Other than the obvious not beating his wife, what are other ways men can do to take a stand against domestic violence?

They can speak up when other guys say or do something unacceptable. Like if one of their friends thinks it is okay to be abusive to his gf – guys can speak up and say "Hey, you are being a jerk, and you will go to jail." or "I’m not going to stand by and watch you treat her that way. I will call 911 on you if you hit her."

Domestic Violence – Two Women a Week – part 1 of 2

February 282010

Featuring Erin Pizzey, Angry Harry and Stephen Fitzgerald.

Examining the frequent assertion in the UK that two women a week die from domestic violence.
Both men and women die every week due to domestic violence but only female deaths receive media and government attention. Women involved in violent relationships are typically at least as violent as their men.
Examines the murder rates of domestic violence and looks at the exclusion of men in the provision of support for DV victims.

• Consensual domestic violence
• Legislation against men including Harriet Harmans yellow card punishments for men acquitted of any wrongdoing
• Origins of violent behaviour in women and men
• Lack of support for men and their children
• Examination of the BBCs Hitting Home domestic violence website and homelessness
• The police and positive arrest policies for DV

Duration : 0:10:5

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Men against domestic violence?

February 282010

Is domestic violece common in your neighborhood, Do you know? Should you be a concerned neighbor?? What would you do if you knew about somone being abused?

i’m against it , i think both party’s should be in jail , man and woman both ,because it takes 2 to argue

Would you say female violence against men has increased since feminism?

February 262010

The statistics for domestic violence indicate that female on male violence makes up around 50% or slightly more of all domestic violence. But was it always that way? We only really have statistics going back to the early 80s.

Does having one sided ideals and legislation which legally and socially condemns violence against women, but not necessarily against men allow women to commit violence against men with greater impunity, seeing as he can’t hit them back?

Any sort of chivalry in the past which prevented violence against women would also have had allowed women a certain amount of impunity in this regard. For example it is well known that Abraham Lincon’s wife was violent towards him.

Is this 50% figure a result of one-sided approaches to domestic violence – indicating that the incidence of female violence against men could rise even further if things continue like this, or would you say women are similarly violent regardless of legal or self defense consequences of their violence?
By the way I am contrasting the actual legal and social ramifications of feminism, including encouragement of ‘chivalry’, with the chivalry which may have existed before feminism here, not equating the two.

Oh yes…especially with this VAWA nonsense. Some women hurt themselves then accuse their husbands of doing it just out of spite.

What do you think of violence against men?

February 242010

This is a serious issue. I’ve come across a feminist whore on Y!A who thinks that violence against men is okay.

Thanks to radical feminism and women privilege, women tend to get away with domestic violence. If men report that they’ve been abused, they’ll get arrested or be looked down upon as a wimp. Men can be falsely accused of rape and have his reputation ruined. People think that violence against men is funny, especially in America.

What do you think of women who get away with domestic violence or makes false rape allegations (a white woman thing)?

Invest in your love and to be happy.
When you make a commitment to a relationship, you invest your attention and energy in it more profoundly because you now experience ownership of that relationship.

Women and Men as “Garments” (Muslim Men Against Domestic Abuse)

February 222010

Please visit our webpage www.mmada.org, sign our online pledge, and look for us on Facebook.

Music by Raihan.

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What do you think about violence against men?

February 222010

This is a serious issue. I’ve come across a feminist whore on Y!A who thinks that violence against men is okay.

Thanks to radical feminism and women privilege, women tend to get away with domestic violence. If men report that they’ve been abused, they’ll get arrested or be looked down upon as a wimp. Men can be falsely accused of rape and have his reputation ruined. People think that violence against men is funny.

What do you think of women who get away with domestic violence or makes false rape allegations (a white woman thing)?

This is not true in Wisconsin, that much I can say…and that’s probably indicative of the rest of the country. Very often when there is a big argument or a physical one, the man is the one who has been violent (sorry but it’s a fact) – however, I see it all the time where a woman goes too far and the guy calls the cops, or neighbors call the cops because they hear the distrubance and when the cops get there the guys says it was the woman doing it (which it may have been), and she goes to jail.

I have heaps of female clients accused of domestic abuse. Usually it’s a one-time thing though, or very minor like she is scratching him or slapping him; it’s not like she is pummelling him or breaking his bones like we see male abusers doing – most women just aren’t strong enough to do that to a man.

Is this an example of domestic violence against men on TV?

February 202010

I was watching reruns of the sitcom "Married with Children" and noticed that in one episode Marcy D’Arcy knocks her husband Steve out with a right hook.

The reason she punched him was because he failed to show up at his old employer’s business to get his job back, and instead took the Bundy family to the zoo. Throughout the episode, Steve procrastinates on finding a job and this highly irritates Marcy as she calls him a "leech."

This episode was aired on NOV 26th, 1989 from season 4, the title of the episode is "At the Zoo."
Okay, the show’s humor was based on stereotypes, how does make punching your husband in the face funny?
Yeah, Marcy Rhodes.

Anyways, this type of humor is sketchy and does push the limits, but it stays within its boundaries. Al would never knock Peg out or hit her.

Everyone on that show behaved badly. Thats what the show was about. Bud was a thief, Kelly a whore and Jefferson D’Arcy (who would be the husband Marcy punched if she was Marcy D’Arcy, otherwise she would be Marcy Rhodes, married to Steve Rhodes) was a leech.

Domestic Violence Reality – the exception vs the rule.

February 192010

This issue needs more attention!!!

A list of some common problems with bureaucracy (wikipedia)

- Overspecialization, making individual officials not aware of larger consequences of their actions

- A phenomenon of group thinking, zealotry, loyalty, and lack of critical thinking regarding the organization which is perfect and always correct by definition, making the organization unable to change and realize its own mistakes and limitations.

- Disregard for dissenting opinions, even when such views suit the available data better than the opinion of the majority.

- A phenomenon of Catch 22 – as bureaucracy creates more and more rules and procedures, their complexity rises and cooperation diminishes, facilitating the creation of contradictory and recursive rules.

- Not allowing people to use common sense as everything must be as is written by the law.

We need to take steps to prevent officials from using these inherent flaws in bureacracy to advance thier own ideology, or for financial gain.

For the full video visit canadacourtwatch.com

for more info on this issue have a look at “Legalizing Misandry: from public shame to systematic discrimination against men” by Paul Nathanson & Katherine K. Young

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