THERE’S NO EXCUSE FOR ABUSE AGAINST WOMAN!
February 192010
STATISTICS QUOTED ARE JUST FROM THE USA ALONE AND ONLY WHAT IS ACTUALLY REPORTED!!!!!!!
PLEASE I URGE ANY WOMAN WHO HAS ENJURED THE TORMENT OF AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP AND MANAGED TO GET OUT TO COME FORWARD AND TELL THEIR STORIES!
IN ORDER TO GIVE THE MANY MANY WOMAN ACROSS THE WORLD AND ACROSS THE WORLD OF YOUTUBE WHO ARE STILL IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS SOME HOPE OF HOW THEY CAN GET OUT AND ADVICE!
THANKS IN ADVANCE JULES XXX:-)
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February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
Thanks for making …
Thanks for making this video. Yes you may not have been able to do all the amazing technical effects etc but it was your message thats important. It’s my first day on Youtube and it was nice to find something so profound.
My first relationship was abusive. I got a dislocated jaw,pushed down the stairs and lost a baby.I got free and became happy.
Now I am back with another abuser-this time psycological so i’m glad you mentioned that aspect of abuse too.Not sure what my next move is.But thanks
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
i was abused in my …
i was abused in my last rlationship i mean this guy was so mean he broke my nose and hurt me and yelled at me i was so scared that if i tried 2 leave he would hurt me which he did when i said that but im ok cuz i can do better
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
GR8 vid thnx! I 2 …
GR8 vid thnx! I 2 have been victim of an abusive r/ship. People dnt understand the long term psychological effects on the victims. Im trying 2 raise awareness n hlp spread the word. Please visit my blog
stalkers-abusive fullstop blogspot fullstop com
HELP SPREAD THE WORD! Its NOT ok to be manipulated or be used as a punching bag! Time to speak up! I also started a cause on FaceBook so if u want to join, msg me
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
No mate of course …
No mate of course there is NO excuse for violence against men either just that this vlog was just focusing on women
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
Does that mean that …
Does that mean that there IS an excuse for abusing a man?
In Canada, woman initiate violence in relationships 55% of the time.
I was married to one of them for 7 years. Run from the psycho-bitches.
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
To niggeroth1: It …
To niggeroth1: It is an insecure man with his own self-esteem problems that would abuse a woman or even -think- abusing a woman “builds character”. It breaks down their character until they are just a shell of their former selves. I don’t know if you are serious or if you just put this comment to get a reaction but you are a very sad little man either way. If a woman beat you down every day do you really think it would build -your- character?
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
I escaped an 18 …
I escaped an 18 year marriage of abuse, it can be done, women stay because their will to live has been eroded, they have lost their self esteem, and everything that makes them who they are. People say why dont they leave? Well it happens gradually, you tell someone they are worthly enough times sooner or later they really believe it. I escaped, some women escape in a casket though. Woman are ashamed and threatened into silence.
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
I am nearly thirty …
I am nearly thirty and I have never once in my life been beaten and I have more character that you’ll ever know. You couldn’t be more wrong.
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
I think you are …
I think you are missing the point of the video. This video was not posted for people to comment on the man’s fashion of lack of fashion, nor was it posted for people to comment on his emotions. It was posted to educate people on the very important life or death situations of abuse and to stop domestic violence.
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
There is no reason …
There is no reason to be violent with anybody. Women shouldn’t be violent towards men as well. Even if someone is egging you on and making you so angry, you need to step out of the situation. There is no excuse for any violence.
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
Beating women is …
Beating women is good for them it builds character.
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
my family found out …
my family found out and talked to me about it and I had my brother,my cousin,and my cousin ty to go with me to break up with him and he hit me again but thats when they got me away from him and hit him..somedays i feel bad bout them doing that but what would of happened if they weren’t there. so I encourage those who are in an abusive relationship please get out of it because something bad could happen even if you think it wont it will.
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
a couple years ago …
a couple years ago I was in an abusive relationship. When we first started dating there was no sign of him getting agressive until later on in the relationship I couldn’t talk to my friends or best guy friends and when I would thats when he would hit me and I dumped him but some how he got me to get back with him and I was stupid for doing that because i knew he would do it again. Well it happened a couple more times until he acutally kicked me in my stomache and got me to the ground. Thats when
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
I know some women …
I know some women can be deceitful, scheming and malicious (much like us men make no mistake), but jesus m8! Define “asking for it.”
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
Is it okay to abuse …
Is it okay to abuse women who are clearly, as they say, ‘asking for it’?
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
im not a homophobe …
im not a homophobe in the slightest. on the contrary, i dont wear v-neck hippie shirts, lame necklaces and look like im about to cry the whole time. its cool if you want to try to act like you’re more intelligent than i, but its not the case at all. just because you have something to say doesn’t mean it is important or really important either.
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
I am very involved …
I am very involved in stopping ALL violence..it’s everywhere, my story is being told on Myspace….and here..KnightMasterHeart has made 3 vids this week, I am telling him my story, he is turning into beautiful inspiration…..I am blessed..I survived.
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
I’m truly sorry …
I’m truly sorry Serene for what you have had to endure in your life but happy that you have been able to move on and break the cycle!
You really are a true survivor
Much love and blessings Jules X
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
Thanks for your …
Thanks for your clearly intelligent and homophobic comment! I’m actually straigh but I guess that wouldn’t make any difference anyway! I’m just sad that there are still so many homophobes like yourself!
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
I am a survivor..so …
I am a survivor..so FEW men recognize and acknowledge this very serious problem. As a child I was abused and by my 16th birthday I had been raped twice,not by strangers..at age 16 I left home after a beating that could have killed me. NO MORE….I broke the chain, it is good for my soul and spirit to see men who understand and support the women who are going through these tragedies…….blessings to you, Serene
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
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February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
Comment below is …
Comment below is just another attempt to justify violence perpetrated by woman. She is never guilty, it’ always HIS fault – even if he’s killed by her. It’s time we start holding women to the same standards we hold for men.
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
Google Fiebert …
Google Fiebert References examining assualts…
This shows that violence F on M happens at approximately the same rate as M on F. The same in the UK where figures show it to be equal at 4.2%. A DV perp will tend to abuse kids as well and the majority of child abuse perps are female. Google mediaradar. child abuse. Who are the main perpetrators.
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
Martin S. Fiebert
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Martin S. Fiebert
Department of Psychology
California State University, Long Beach
Last updated: September 2007
SUMMARY: This bibliography examines 206 scholarly investigations: 159 empirical studies and 47 reviews and/or analyses, which demonstrate that women are as physically aggressive, or more aggressive, than men in their relationships with their spouses or male partners. The aggregate sample size in the reviewed studies exceeds 197,900.
February 19th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
Yeah its a shame …
Yeah its a shame that the media has to reinforce the stereotype. I’m sorry to here you can’t get help. That sucks. =(. Maybe you should post a video about your story. Spread the word. Hope things get better for you.