Question about christmas visit?

December 302010

My ex-fiance and father of my children was arrested back in July for domestic violence. The court back in August gave me temporary full custody of our two children and him supervised visits by a professional at a center here in our town.
I would like to allow the kids to go for a few hours to his mothers for Christmas and she will pick them up and drop them off. My ex will be there. Can I get in trouble for doing this?
How can it be used against me?

It is a Christmas visit and the mother is the children grandmother. If you trust the grandmother and everyone is in agreement with the visit there should not be a problem. Your responsibility is to make sure that the children will be safe.

Question about christmas visit?

December 282010

My ex-fiance and father of my children was arrested back in July for domestic violence. The court back in August gave me temporary full custody of our two children and him supervised visits by a professional at a center here in our town.
I would like to allow the kids to go for a few hours to his mothers for Christmas and she will pick them up and drop them off. My ex will be there. Can I get in trouble for doing this?
How can it be used against me?

It is a Christmas visit and the mother is the children grandmother. If you trust the grandmother and everyone is in agreement with the visit there should not be a problem. Your responsibility is to make sure that the children will be safe.

How often is female against female rape reported to the police?

December 262010


This varies from country to country, but the answer is that it is a very rare crime.

How often is female against female rape reported to the police?

December 222010


This varies from country to country, but the answer is that it is a very rare crime.

How often is female against female rape reported to the police?

December 202010


This varies from country to country, but the answer is that it is a very rare crime.

Why is domestic violence against men ignored?

December 182010

Don’t say it doesn’t happen and is only perpetrated by violent, aggressive men because it is not true. Every year, 1,510,455 women and 834,732 men are victims of physical violence by an intimate. This is according to a Nov. 1998 Department of Justice report on the National Violence Against Women Survey.

Clearly there is more women being victims of domestic violence and that is a huge issue, but more than half of the above statistics is MEN as victims, this coming from the US department of justice. So don’t say 99% of batterers are men or any bullshit without a source.

I understand that men can and usually do leave more physical damage and the efforts to help women are great and should be continued and aided even further but why do we have to do so at the expense of men? Why can’t we acknowledge both and educate the public on both so we have EQUALITY. To many victims go unnoticed because of your lack of compassion to the other sex or even your sex because your head is so far up your feminist ass.

Isn’t equality what people use to fight for?

the number for men should be higher because so much abuse against them goes unreported and the number for women should be lower because of all the false reports !

the reason that violence against men is ignored, is because society babies women

La Raza reporting how angry are you at this Citizen about how this America abused a Mexican woman?

December 162010

PHOENIX – When her husband started hitting her, Juana knew it was wrong. But she stayed, fearing that since he was a U.S. citizen and she was undocumented he could make good on threats to have her deported so that she’d never see their daughter again.

"He would tell me he is American, born here, and I’m Mexican and I don’t have papers," Juana said. "That’s what he told me, that he was able to call immigration to deport me to Mexico, and because of fear of him taking my daughter away I would stay with him."

The abuse continued even after Juana got pregnant a second time, she said. Seven months in, a beating was so bad Juana that had to be hospitalized. At nine months, he gave her a black eye.

"I would feel bad because he didn’t care that I was pregnant," Juana said in Spanish. "He would change for a few days and be calm and everything, but then he would begin again and it would hurt me a lot."

Domestic violence affects women of every country, culture and income level, and victims are often reluctant to seek help for a variety of reasons.

When a woman is in the U.S. illegally, however, she will be even more reluctant to come forward, law enforcement officials and victims’ advocates say. Undocumented immigrants as a group fear dealing with police, and some abusers use that fear as a lever, threatening to turn in their victims and separate them from children through deportation.

"When someone is not documented, of course there comes the immigration piece, the legality of it," said Silvia Meyer, a counselor at Phoenix’s Family Advocacy Center. "The abuser will make the victim think or believe that she cannot do anything."

There is no way to measure how many undocumented women are in the United States, let alone how many of them experience domestic violence. They can’t be recognized or counted until they come forward, and many stay silent.

But interviews with Arizona law enforcement officials, advocates, attorneys and victims revealed case after case where threats made undocumented victims stay with their abusers as violence escalated.

Besides Juana, Cronkite News conducted extensive interviews with three other domestic violence victims at a west Phoenix shelter run by Chicanos por la Causa: Karla, a permanent resident who reached out to her husband’s relatives only to have them take his side; Jacqueline, who left shortly after the birth of her third child; and Brenda, who left to protect her young son.

To protect the women’s identities, only their first names are used.

Fear and isolation
Undocumented women like Juana are often cut off from the community and don’t know how or where to seek help. If they do report abuse, they face an unfamiliar legal system that’s difficult to navigate in a foreign language.

http://www.tucsonsentinel.com/local/report/121410_domestic_abuse
No America has the right to lay his hands on woman.especially against Latina’s. This makes me so mad.

He treat her like a dog. I would gladly marry a Latina if she undocumented citizen and give her a better life. The mans has devote wife but he abuse her.Latinas should be treated like queens, not servants.May God bless this latina womens.She did not deserve this.

Discrimination Against Men??? do u think there is a global problem that we might be facing?

December 122010

WEALTH: Women hold 65% of the country’s wealth [Fortune Magazine]

CHILD CUSTODY: Women receive custody of 92% of the children of divorce and illegitimacy, and men only 4%. [Department of Health & Human Services]

INCOME: Men constitute 60% of workplace hours, work longer hours, work harder, and are more qualified, rarely file sexual discrimination or harassment lawsuits or take pregnancy leave, yet earn only 42% more than women [Dept. Labor]

SUICIDE: Men’s suicide rate is 4.6 times higher than women’s [Dept. Health & Human Services -- 26,710 males vs 5,700 females]

LIFE EXPECTANCY: Men’s life expectancy is seven (7) years shorter than women’s [National Center for Health Statistics -- males 72.3 yrs vs females 79 yrs] yet receive only 35% of government expenditures for health care and medical costs.

AFFIRMATIVE ACTION: Men are discriminated against BY DESIGN through affirmative action.

FEDERAL TAXES: Even though men pay 115% of federal income taxes women constitute 11% more of the voters.

VOTE: Because there are 11% more female than male voters, males have little to no influence on how the male tax dollar is spent.

WAR: Men, not women, fight and die in battle [Dept. Defense -- Vietnam Casualties 47,369 men vs 74 women] while women sue the taxpayer when they have their butt pinched.

WORKPLACE FATALITIES: Men account for more than 95% of workplace fatalities.

MURDER: Men are murdered at a rate almost 5 times that of women [Dept. Health & Human Services -- 26,710 men vs 5,700 women]

JURY BIAS: Women are acquitted of spousal murder at a rate 9 times that of men [Bureau Justice Statistics -- 1.4% of men vs 12.9% of women]

COURT BIAS: Men are sentenced 2.8 times longer than women for spousal murder [Bureau Justice Statistics -- men at 17 years vs women at 6 years]

JUSTICE SYSTEM BIAS: Even though the amount of the average "child support payment" due from women is half the amount due from men, and even though women are twice as likely as men to default on those payments, fathers are 97% of "child support" collections prosecutions [Census Bureau]

WELFARE: Even though men are the recipients of less than 10% of all welfare disbursements, men are required to refund welfare payments made to women.

SECONDARY EDUCATION: Even though zero percent of American 12th grade girls were able to correctly answer basic math and physics questions, less than one quarter of America’s secondary and elementary school teachers are men.

HIGHER EDUCATION: There are more than 200 all-female colleges for women and now not one single all-male college for men. 5.8% fewer men than women are enrolled in 4 year colleges, even though two thirds of those who score higher than 550 in SAT Math are males. In 1993 only 44.5% of college enrollment were men, and that figure has declined since then. Only 45.8% of of bachelor’s degrees were conferred to men in 1992, even though 98.2% of the top fiftieth percentile of the GRE are men, and ZERO PERCENT of American high school girls correctly answered 28 out of 67 TIMSS advanced math questions. Only 38.4% of private 4 year college students were men as of 1990, and this figure has declined since then.

LEGAL SYSTEM BIAS: 96% of physical altercations resulting in injury to a spouse occurs AFTER the date of separation. [Read: spousal abuse laws that pretend that husbands are dangerous discriminate against husbands when we know that only a very small percent of domestic violence is associated with them]. [Chadwick and Heaton, "Statistical Handbook of the American Family"]

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE: Even though study after study shows that women are the majority of the initiators of domestic violence, and 58% of the above mentioned physical altercations are initiated by the female, Congress passed the obviously anti-male VAWA and VAWA II.which are known would make the problem far worse. [Read: despite the fact we discriminate against husbands in protective orders, women still cause more than half of domestic altercations because they know they can get away with it].

CHILD VIOLENCE: Even though mothers commit 55% of child murders and biological fathers commit 6%, even though NIS-3 shows that Mother-only households are 3 times more fatal to children than Father-only households, children are systematically removed from the natural fathers who are their most effective protectors and men are imprisoned at rate 20 times that of women.

FAMILY BREAKDOWN: The US Surgeon General notes that divorce is more harmful to a man’s health than smoking tobacco, yet as much as $1.3 Trillion of federal expenditures accomplish little else than undermine family stability.

WOMEN PILOTS: Even though women pilots have an accident rate four times that of men pilots, federal laws require that airlines risk the safety of passengers and hire women pilots anyway.
i am actually writing an essay on discrimination against men..i have my proposal ready..just need the specific " what global problems might be rising from this..i live in canada..and in most developed nations men are juss looked down at..the advertisments..the govt ..the legal system..

You left out the 11% of those on death row are women, yet that have a 1/100th of a chance of actually being put to death.

Do you think the rape charges against Julian Assange are politically motivated owing to WikiLeaks?

December 102010

Given the political outcome of the WikiLeaks document dump this past year, should Assange be behind bars tonight in London’s largest jail?

100% politically motivated. They want to cut the head off the monster. The man’s being set up.

When was rape considered a crime against humanity?

December 82010

I’m doing a paper on the effects of the Sino-Japanese War (1937) against women. Obviously a key component is rape and the comfort women..

I was wondering when the UN officially added "rape" as a crime against humanity? Thanks

always!